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Bernadette Ontong
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This is not about Mel Gibson's: What Women Want



The Quest for Men to Understand Women

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The Quest for Men to Understand Women

Bernadette Ontong
Contributing Writer

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[Comments] The title is not referring to the magical happening of Mel Gibson in the movie by this name. There is no magical way in which you would ever be able to read the mind of any person let alone that of a woman. There are just a few tweaks, however, to your mindset and behavior that would allow you to give a woman what she wants.

It is simple and easy and do not even have to be hard work to accomplish. As a male person, you have the built-in wiring not to be too emotional or not emotional at all. However, the beginning of knowing what a woman wants is to become a little more (or a lot more) emotional when you deal with her. You can still maintain your dignified tough guy role for the world outside of your relationship, but you need to reserve some emotional interaction for the woman in your life. All a woman wants from you is to know that she is all to you ' the queen of your heart.

Here is the tricky part. You need to find ways of letting her know that she is the only one on planet earth for you. She needs to know that she is the queen of your heart through practical applications. Here you need to be as innovative and creative as possible. You will find that you will make your life easier as there would not be a demand for your attention; there will not be the constant "silent treatment", because she is upset for some reason you really do not understand.

Your special treatment of her means that her life becomes simpler and, hence, your life becomes simpler. The reason is, that she knows that she can carry on with her life, even if you are stuck in front of the television, watching your football; or out with your friends, because there is no need to worry about a divided loyalty.

All a woman wants is to know is that she is loved without any compromise. You will find that the world will revolve around you and you are able to do exactly as you please, but within bounds.

It is important to get to know what it is that makes her mad and avoid those areas of irritation. This is very simple. All you need to do is give her quality time at the right times and you have your answers as to what she wants. To repeat a previous statement: You can then carry on with life as you wish.


Bernadette Ontong

Bernadette Ontong, Contributing Writer: I have been a freelance writer for the last seven years. I also dabble in design, and take a stab at being an editor too. Writing is a way of expressing my creativity and giving wings to to the knowledge I aquire. Writing is about fulfillment and the added benefit of receiving rewards for it. (more...)